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What Can Puppies Teach Writers? Plenty

Posted on 06.06.18 | Holly Robinson | 14 Comments

 

After my beloved dog Leo died, I entered a thick fog of grief. I felt his absence keenly because he was such an integral part of my life, keeping me company on walks and while I was writing, on the couch and in the car.

Logically, I knew I shouldn’t get another dog. I’m never bored. I have a great marriage, two lovely old cats, lots of friends, and work I love. I tried hard to allow myself to grieve, while at the same time embracing the idea that I was freer than I had ever been since parenthood. Without a dog to tie me down, I could work a solid nine-hour day, sleep late, and take off for New York City on a whim.

But, after several months, I’d had enough. I’m a dog person and nothing can change that.

Leo was a Pekingese, a sort of accidental purchase. It’s an uncommon breed but I adore it—Pekes are small but sturdy, great on hikes and calm enough to lie around while you work–so I sought out a local breeder and found a puppy I loved. Even before bringing him home, I named him Merlin because of his tufted eyebrows and white beard.

“A puppy?” a friend gasped. “Honest to God, think of the work. You need to have your head examined.”

I knew what she meant—the housebreaking and constant chewing, the endless hours of play a puppy requires are huge responsibilities. (Even as I write this, I’m playing fetch.) But, in the week since Merlin joined our family, this tiny man has shown me just how much puppies can teach writers:

1. “Who’s a Good Dog? You’re a Good Dog!”

Ever notice how that’s the first thing most people say when greeting a puppy? That’s why most puppies run up to strangers, wagging their tails and launching themselves into the air for pats and treats: they expect to be praised.

Making time to write means giving ourselves permission every day to be writers, even if we’re not making money at it or our agents and editors keep saying our drafts need work. Watching Merlin made me start imagining how great I’d feel if everyone I met said, “Who’s a good writer? You’re a good writer!” Try this, and you might start believing in yourself.

2. Chew on It

Chewing on something is one of the best ways to find out whether you like it. From rug fringe to new treats, from shoelaces to squeaking toys, Merlin chews whatever he can reach: aggressively at times, meditatively at others. Writing is exactly the same. You need to give yourself time to taste every new idea and ruminate on it for a while before you know whether it’s going to be good.

3. Go Fetch

If there’s something moving, run after it and bring it back! That idea floating through your dreamy state as you go to bed might be just the one that helps you work out your latest plot kink. Capture it in a notebook or even on a scrap of paper and bring it back. Test it out, change it, then bring it back again.

 

4. Friends Make Life Better

We writers spend an unholy number of hours alone every day, playing with ideas and imaginary friends. But real-life friends can make you see the world—and the worlds you’re creating—from different perspectives. Seek out other authors not only as critique partners or when you need blurbs for your new book, but as friends who understand the highs and lows of the writing life.

 

5. Exercise Your Body as Well as Your Mind

Sometimes the ideas don’t come, no matter how much time you spend at your desk or on your bed. It’s fine to take a break from writing. Run around, play fetch, and hike the trails. Taking a break is often a good way to get some fresh writing done, because you’re unlocking your creativity through movement.

 

6. Embrace Surprises

One of the funniest things in our house is watching how hard Merlin tries to play with our two old cats. One of them wants nothing to do with him and told him so on the first day with a good swipe of her claws. The other cat surprised Merlin—and us—by playing along. He takes walks beside Merlin as if he’s on a leash, too, and lets Merlin bat him around and lick his ears like he’s a giant stuffed toy. When you’re writing, your characters will often surprise you by misbehaving, or they’ll go in directions you didn’t expect and say things that you didn’t plan to put in their mouths. Embrace the surprises. That’s part of the fun of writing.

Okay, your turn: What have your pets taught you about the creative life?

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Categories: Dogs, Excercise, Fiction Writing, Friendships, How to Write a Novel, Literary Fiction, Persistence, Pets, Writing Tags: cats, creativity, dogs, fiction writing, housebreaking a new puppy, how to write, how to write a novel, inspiration, pets, puppies, what humans can learn from dogs, writers, writing a novel

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Holly Robinson is a novelist, journalist and celebrity ghost writer. She and her husband have five children and a stubborn Pekingese. They currently divide their time between Massachusetts and Prince Edward Island, and are crazy enough to be fixing up old houses one shingle at a time in both places.

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  1. Barb says

    June 6, 2018 at 2:44 pm

    Your puppy is too cute for words!

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    • Holly Robinson says

      June 6, 2018 at 3:01 pm

      Thanks so much, Barb!

      Reply
  2. Toby Neal says

    June 6, 2018 at 5:01 pm

    Love said. Darling photos, too!

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    • Holly Robinson says

      June 6, 2018 at 5:16 pm

      Ah, Toby, can’t wait to have you meet him. Thanks!

      Reply
  3. Sonja Shine says

    June 6, 2018 at 8:47 pm

    I loved this, Holly. My old boy is almost 15 now & a bit rickety, but still has the gifts that dogs constantly share with you. Our walks are shorter, but the enthusiasm is still there. Lots of interesting things to sniff along the way & a yummy treat waiting when we get home. I’ve been having thoughts about whether or not to consider getting a pup when Cooper leaves me. All the reasons which went through your mind have been concerns to me as well. I’m traveling a lot these days, too, so that’s an added element to potentially deter me. That said, I think there would be such a missing energy in the house & in my heart, I’m betting that Cooper will send me another kindred spirit when the time is right. Your little Merlin seems like a perfect fit for you, & I’m sure that Leo’s spirit is close by. They are a gift in our lives, to be sure. Enjoy my friend!

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    • Holly Robinson says

      June 7, 2018 at 8:50 am

      Ah, Sonja, I love hearing about Cooper. I adored my last slow walks with Leo. And you’re right: I feel Leo’s spirit close by and Merlin is such a gift. Let’s see each other soon, and maybe Cooper and Merlin can meet one day. Thanks for stopping by my blog. Gosh, I miss that hot dog cart!

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  4. Artemis Crow says

    June 8, 2018 at 9:33 pm

    For me it’s the attitude, living in the moment. Dogs don’t think about the past or the future. They are completely immersed in right now. As a writer, I try not to obsess about what I may or may not have done right yesterday, or what is coming tomorrow. I try to stay in the moment, in that scene, getting through it, then shifting my focus to the next. If I don’t meet my goals for the day, I try not to dwell on it. Hey, I got some words down, and that’s grand!

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    • Holly Robinson says

      June 9, 2018 at 5:05 pm

      So well said, Artemis! Getting any words down at all is a huge victory. Let me know how you get on!

      Reply
  5. da-AL says

    June 14, 2018 at 12:36 am

    such a sweet post!

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    • Holly Robinson says

      June 14, 2018 at 8:45 am

      Thank you so much for stopping by!

      Reply
  6. Edith Maxwell says

    June 21, 2018 at 7:46 am

    I love all these, Holly! Great lessons. My favorite? “Who’s a good writer? You’re a good writer!” Made me laugh. Have fun with Merlin – I look forward to meeting him one of these days. I’ll come help you take him for a walk and we can tell each other what great writers the other is. ;^)

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    • Holly Robinson says

      June 21, 2018 at 10:42 am

      Edith, Merlin and I will walk with you any time! Thank you so much for taking the time to read this.

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  7. Leanne Dyck says

    July 11, 2018 at 7:08 pm

    Merlin is adorable. Enjoy!

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    • Holly Robinson says

      July 25, 2018 at 9:26 am

      Thanks, Leanne! He’s growing fast, but such a personality, wow.

      Reply

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